Thomas & Lia's Story 

We've always been romantics - those "silly" people who believe that passion and joy between intimate partners can last a lifetime in a wondrous romance.  When we found each other, we built a relationship with more intention than anything else we've ever done.  A decade later, we're still madly in love, joyful in every day, passionate, committed, and proud of our journey.

In 2018, we taught our first workshop together on relationship dynamics.  Though busy corporate leaders, we loved helping others find greater romantic connection!  So we continued to refine our tools and teachings.  We mentored other couples.  Presented at many events, conferences, and retreats through the years.  Then, in 2025, Thomas shifted from corporate consulting towards full-time life coaching, and in February of 2026, we launched Intimacy Alchemy!

We believe in sacred romance.  We understand the value of building our relationship dynamics on purpose.  We cherish spirit-body integration, and do it together.  And we are thrilled when we can inspire others to experience extraordinary love.

IT WASN'T ALWAYS EASY

 

The path to finding each other was a long journey of personal growth spanning our education, careers, marriage, children, divorce, and self renewal.  We didn't fall into the perfect partnership by chance - it took wisdom and intention forged by years of successes and failures, reflection, and conscious growth.

We are passionate about sharing all we've learned along the way!  We hate seeing intimate partnerships bumbling along in mediocracy, settling for safety without passion, meeting the societal expectation of companionship without the depth of real intimacy.

We believe you can have a joyful, sexy, fulfilling relationship where the romance endures.  And we're here to help you live your dreams.

Join the movement that believes
romance belongs in your real life!
(not just the pages of a novel)

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COMMUNITY
MEMBERSHIP


Learn and grow in community with access to Thomas & Lia.

  • Online courses
  • Exclusive Community
  • "Embers" Prompts
  • Live Events &
    Group Coaching
  • Discounts on cohorts &
    in-person retreats

 

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RELATIONSHIP
COACHING


Private coaching unlocks the surest pathway towards building the relationship of your dreams. With a growth plan customized for you, we're here to inspire, cultivate growth, and ignite passion.  

 

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BOOK FOR YOUR EVENT
 

Thomas & Lia offer practical workshops that engage audiences with wit and wisdom, sure to be entertaining and life changing.

 

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