July at Intimacy Alchemy
This Month at Intimacy Alchemy
We have a few beautiful things unfolding inside Intimacy Alchemy: a live conversation tonight, new Integration Folios in your library, upcoming workshops, and a chance for you to help shape what we create next.
Tonight: Fireside Alchemy
So You Wanna Be a Dominant?
Tonight’s Fireside Alchemy explores one of the most misunderstood roles in intimate power dynamics: the Dominant partner.
Not as a performance. Not as a title. Not as control for its own sake. But as a relational responsibility.
We’ll be talking about the values, skills, emotional maturity, and care required to hold power well — especially when that power is shared by consent, trust, and conscious agreement.
Join us tonight:
Wednesday, July 2
8:00–8:30 PM ET
https://meet.google.com/apz-bqym-gzz
*Notice, we're exploring Google Meet for these sessions, not the In-App tools of the Alchemy Lab. We're hoping this is easier for visitors / non-members. Only members will get access to the recordings.
If you’ve ever been curious about what makes Dominance grounded, safe, and deeply connected, this is a conversation worth joining.
We’re Heading to Naughty N’awlins
From July 8–12, we’ll be at Naughty N’awlins, where we’re presenting four workshops throughout the event.
This year’s event is sold out at nearly 5,000! We’re excited to bring Intimacy Alchemy into such a rich space of learning, play, embodiment, and connection.
Then, on July 16, we’ll gather again for Fireside Alchemy, where I’ll share reflections and takeaways from Naughty N’awlins — the moments that moved us, the patterns we noticed, and what may be worth bringing into your own practice of intimacy.
And who knows… maybe next year, you’ll want to join us there.
New in Your Library: Integration Folios
The Integration Folios are here.
These are not simple handouts or quick summaries. They're deep, detailed, practical guidebooks designed to help you carry workshop insights into lived practice.
We distilled several of our recent workshops from Frolicon and Midsummer Nights Kink Festival into beautifully expanded resources for reflection, conversation, and integration.
Members received early drafts inside the Alchemy Lab, and the newest versions are now available in My Library.
Available Integration Folios
- The Alchemy of Power
- Presence in the Art of Pose
- Energetic Alignment for Intimacy
- Embodied Truth: The Erotic Power of Radical Honesty
If you’re a member, you can find them now in your library.
If you’re not yet a member, you can purchase individual folios through the online store, collect them by attending our workshops, or join the membership to receive access to the full collection.
Each folio is a tool to help you move beyond just understanding the topic into practicing and receiving the benefits of true integration.
Website Updates
We’ve also made a few improvements at Intimacy-Alchemy.com to make the experience smoother and easier to use.
Recent improvements include:
- Fixed the login issue where light text was appearing inside white login fields
- Using Google Meet for Fireside Alchemy instead of the platform inside the Alchemy Lab, because we want Fireside Alchemy to be available for non-members without jumping through hoops.
- Updated the Store experience
- Improved the My Library area
- Added the newest Integration Folios for members
Small refinements matter. They make it easier for you to find what you need, return to your practices, and stay connected to the work.
Coming Soon: New Online Courses
Two new online courses are written and moving toward release:
- Sexual Awakening
- Sacred Agreements
We’re currently in production on Sexual Awakening, with an intended release in early August.
These courses are part of the deeper Intimacy Alchemy curriculum — created to help you explore desire, communication, embodiment, safety, and conscious relationship through clear teaching and grounded practice.
More soon.
Help Shape What Comes Next
We’re planning our August and September offerings now — including Fireside Alchemy sessions, courses, cohorts, and Embers.
And we want to hear from you.
What are you craving more support around?
What conversations would feel nourishing, useful, or exciting?
What would help you deepen your practice of intimacy, connection, power, honesty, or devotion?
Share your thoughts here:
Take the Interest Survey
Your responses help us choose the themes that will serve this community best.
Until Then
May this week bring you one moment of honest connection.
One breath before reaction.
One choice made with care.
One small act that turns awareness into intimacy.
That is where the alchemy begins.
With gratitude,
Thomas & Lia
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