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Power & Harmony

Most relationships fail not from lack of loveā€”but from unconscious and misunderstood motivations related to our sense of power exchange. Power & Harmony reveals what traditional advice won't teach you: the inner workings of relationship dynamics and how to craft a partnership that flourishes with empowerment, dignity, safety, and care.

Using the psychology-backed 4 Aspects Framework, you'll understand your unique affinities, discover your natural leader-follower patterns, and communicate what you really want without friction. Learn to negotiate consensual power dynamics across all life areasā€”from finances to intimacy. Transform conflict into connection, build unshakeable trust, and ignite passion that lasts. Stop hoping your relationship goes the distance. Start crafting it.

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  • The Alchemy Lab (basic access):
    Our online community of like-minded romantics. Forums for asking questions, sharing successes, learning, laughing, and growing together.
    • Fireside Alchemy:
      Thomas & Lia LIVE every other week with romance building topics, great discussion, and group coaching.
    • Embers Prompts:
      Relationship prompts to fuel your romance.

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Complete Course Outline

Chapter 1: Introduction

  • Welcome to Power & Harmony
  • The Human Experience of "Power"
  • The Root of Most Relationship Problems
  • Assessing Your Natural Dominance Motivations

Chapter 2: The 4 Aspects of Dominance

  • 4 Aspects Overview
  • Dominion
  • Authority
  • Control
  • Might

Chapter 3: Understanding Your Personal Affinities

  • Understanding Your Personal Lifestyle Affinities
  • Shared Power or Authority Transfer?

Chapter 4: 4 Aspects of Harmony

  • 4 Harmonies
  • Deference
  • Activating Dominion and Deference
  • Compliance
  • Surrender
  • Meekness

Chapter 5: Crafting Intentional Relationship Dynamics

  • Practical tools for building deeper understanding and negotiating needs
  • Negotiating power struggles and vacuums

Chapter 6: Serving Each Other and Growing Together

  • Conflict Resolution with the 4 Aspects
  • Harmonic Communication: Communicating Your Needs to a Dominant Partner
  • Continual relationship growth with the 4 Aspects